I dont know where to start. Big changes seem to be happening in my life-or they want to happen,anyway.
I sometimes smoke pot, I smoke cigarettes as if i were the devil, I drink strong liqour whenever the occasion arises and I call myself a Christian, encouraging people to take the 'road less trod'. Im a hipocrite and I want to change my ways. I feel divided between opposite poles, friends at the one- and friends at the other.
My friends at the bad pole are the ones who who stand by me through thick and thin, who share my pains and laugh with me,share good times with me and essentially make my life worth living. They dont constantly change and leave me standing alone. We live our lives like rotten fucking bastards but we're good inside, while others are good on the outside.
My other friends, at the 'good' pole are really great people who care for others and try to change the world for the better,one person at a time. They live their lives the good way. They live pure lives,today,because the bible has told them to do so. They live pure lives but they're lonely inside. Their linear train of thought makes them tell the world "This is how you should live your life. If you fail to comply, you are a failure in the eyes of your God".
I'd have been one of them if i were in their social sphere but thats a whole different chapter.
Should a model Christian not set an example that can attract others and give them hope? I think so.
The Christian denomination that my friends have adopted and preach with such devotion is one that is based on principles that separate its followers from the rest of society almost completely. Many global cultural norms and habits are dismissed as unacceptable and a 'new way' is introduced, of which the cornerstone principles are highly unattractive to the average outsider looking in. My point is that Seventh Day Adventism is a rather fanatical approach towards Christianity. SDA Christians believe, for example, that one may not eat pig meat, may consume no alcohol whatsoever- irrespective of occasion..and my favourite..They may do nothing at all on the Sabbath,which they have on the Saturday. My SDA friend warned me against studying for a final-year June exam on a Saturday and I was standing there,shuffling my feet, going "um..uhh.. I dunno dude, i dont want to disobey the Bible but ill have to study on the odd saturday to get into university". Can one really go through life doing NOTHING each friday night until Saturday night?
I know that the Sabbath is on Saturday so im not arguing with that but im showing my readers another reason why the SDA denomination is highly unattractive to outsiders and why I believe that when teaching the word of God, people should take a lighter approach so as not to overwhelm, because as i have seen..adopting S.D. Adventism as one's faith is going to be an overwhelming, life-altering experience and a forceful approach will get you nowhere and will estrange from your slightly-less-than-perfect friends.
I have created interest in the bible in some friends over the years,without telling them its the only way not to burn the fuck up in hell. I believe there's a way to the Kingdom that combines emotional devotion to God with enjoyment of life. If such a way exists, is it not a more viable option for humankind?
Finally,just to clear some things up:
My ironic psychological victory..
I love smoking cigarettes and I'd be a hipocrite to pretend i dont, but i do intend on quitting in the near future.
Unresolved matters in my life have me in a seemingly spiteful gridlock and so I lie in placid wait for a manifestation of Change herself, before i surrender.